For a while I thought I wasn't going to be able to link up with the Six Sentence Story blog hop this week, but this morning I thought of something I might share.
To say that I had reservations about making the reservation is saying it mildly. When I was in high school, I attended a Business Club meeting and was asked to make a reservation at one of the few restaurants in town that had a nice banquet room. The club held a banquet each year at the end of the school year. The reasons seem lame now as to why I didn't sometime during the following month make the personal contact I'd been asked to do. My natural reserved nature made that task seem almost insurmountable, so I just put the assignment far back in my mind where I wouldn't have to face it. It was a painful lesson, seeing the disappointment of my classmates when the club had a follow-up meeting a month later and they learned that my inertia made it impossible by then to reserve the needed room.
Lesson learned:
Without reservation I learned at an early age, the hard way, the important lesson that through action or inaction one person can have a powerful impact on the course of events.
Hard lessons...we often forget that in choosing not to act is still making a choice...glad you made it here after all!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Ivy. I just had to wait for the brain fog to clear, so it was clear the direction I was to go for this post.
DeleteTo see through one self is an art and you did that!
ReplyDeleteThanks. I think it is so important for all of us to learn from our life experiences.
DeleteExcellent lesson. I would never have been able to call and make that reservation, either, and would have been in the same boat as you.
ReplyDeleteIt helps to learn that there are others who might have had that same struggle. It is nice to not feel alone in the challenges one has faced or are facing.
DeleteIt's amazing how something seemingly small can loom so large in our heads! And then, the more you put it off the "bigger" that thing gets:) I know that feeling all too well :)
ReplyDeleteIt is definitely best to just take care of what needs to be done before it start to become a cancer in our heads, and then we don't have to deal with the regrets that come from postponing the matter.
DeleteThanks for sharing this life story. When I was in High School I was on the play crew and my job was to contact the local radio stations and do publicity for the play. I had no idea how or what to do so I put in on the back burner, too. The hardest part of the lesson was the teacher's disappointment in me. Your story brought forth a forgotten memory.
ReplyDeleteSorry that I brought up a forgotten memory for you. I'm sure my teacher was disappointed in me too.
DeleteI can't imagine you ignoring an assignment!
ReplyDeleteFear is not a good companion. It causes one to do or not to do things that are out of character. I wasn't perfect then, nor am I now, but one just keeps trying to improve and learn from the past.
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